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Monday, February 03, 2014

Breastfeeding: Inverted Nipples - how do you know you have it and what do you do?

Now you know if you have a inverted or flat nipple…what do you do?




Well, first and foremost it to:-

1.)    Knowing what a proper latch looks like. I have searched online and always refer to the Breastfeeding Guro of Dr Jack Newman. He has a video posted on Youtube that can help describe what the good latch is all about.
Proper Latch:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wj9tLgYn-bA
Asymetric:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHs2Ql5Kylo
Latch with a Lactation Aid:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezGIkIkhC_o
More videos are here: http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=jack+newman+breastfeeding

During your initial feedings, your baby may be able to open his mouth wide enough and suck vigorously enough to draw the nipple far into his mouth and close his gums on the areola, so the flat or inverted nipple may not present a major problem. Having someone to help you with latch on and positioning can be very helpful.

You will want to nurse as soon as possible after birth, and every 2-3 hours after that. You want to avoid engorgement, because breast swelling can cause the nipples to flatten out, making them more difficult to grasp. (See article on Engorgement for tips on how to avoid this problem).

For initial learning period of breastfeeding, try to avoid the use of any artificial nipples. Supplement with alternative feeding methods, because the baby who is learning how to nurse, especially on a nipple that isn’t the ideal shape for nursing, is more likely to become nipple confused. See article Introducing Bottles and Pacifiers to the Breastfed Baby to get more detailed information on alternate feeding methods.

If feedings become stressful, stop and comfort your baby. Try rocking, swaddling, walking, giving him your finger to suck, or offer him some expressed milk or water or until he settles down. You want him to associate feedings with positive feedback, not negative.

2.)    What is an inverted/flat nipple?

A) The nipple below is what a nipple is normally shaped. 
 
B) The nipple below is an example of what an inverted nipple looks like. 


C) A simple "pinch test" will show you whether your nipple is inverted: Using your thumb and index finger, gently squeeze the areola about 1 inch behind the nipple. This technique will make a normal nipple protrude.


 D) The pinch test will make an inverted nipple pull inward.





3.)    What if you DO HAVE an INVERTED NIPPLE? It’s not the end of the world. It is helpful if you have help from a Lactation Consultant, if possible during the first feedings, as these are likely to present the most problems.

Many mothers with flat or inverted nipples experience some degree of nipple soreness. You may experience soreness as the nipple is drawn into the baby’s mouth, and the adhesions are stretched or broken. If the nipple draws back into the baby’s mouth during or immediately after feedings, moisture may become trapped and contribute to soreness. Try patting the nipples dry after feedings and apply a thin coating of lanolin or olive oil.
Here are some of consolidating tested techniques in getting them out and easy for your baby to latch on:-

a.       Hoffman Technique.
Doing this technique several times a day may help loosen the adhesions at the base of the nipple. To employ this technique: place a thumb on each side of the base of the nipple - directly at the base of the nipple, not at the edge of the areola. Push in firmly against your breast tissue while at the same time pulling your thumbs away from each other. By doing this you will be stretching out the nipple and loosening the tightness at the base which will make the nipple move up and outward. This exercise should be repeated 5 times a day, moving the thumbs in a clockwise fashion around the nipple. It can be used during pregnancy and after baby begins breastfeeding.

b.      Nipple stimulation.
After birth (unless the nipples retracts completely), if the nipple can be grasped, a mother can roll her nipple between her thumb and index finger for a 30 seconds to a minute or two and then quickly touch the nipple with a moist, cold cloth or ice wrapped in cloth,
immediately before offering it to your baby. A disposable nursing pad that is dampened and put in the freezer makes a great ice pack can also to help the nipple evert immediately before nursing.

NOTE: Avoid prolonged use of ice as it can inhibit the letdown reflex and numb the nipple too much

c.       Pulling back on the breast tissue/areola before you latch the baby on.
As you support your breast for latch-on with thumb on top and four fingers underneath and way back against the chest wall, pull slightly back on the breast tissue toward the chest wall to help the nipple protrude.

d.      Nipple Shield.
WARNING:
Nipple shields should only be used when a lactation professional recommends them and supervises their use, they can be helpful in certain situations.
This is a thin, flexible silicone nipple with holes in the end that fits over your nipple during feedings. Nipple shields, in the past, were made out of thick rubber that caused a significant decrease in the mother’s milk supply. They were handed out freely to new mothers in order to ‘reduce nipple soreness’ or to get babies to nurse at the breast. Under these circumstances, they created more problems than they solved. Modern nipple shields are made from a clear, thin layer of silicone, which means that more stimulation reaches the areola, and the reduction of milk volume is minimized.


The below is from Dr Jack Newman’s account regarding Nipple Shields on his Facebook account.

One of the situations in which a nipple shield can be useful is in helping an infant latch on to a severely inverted or flat nipple, especially when other measures described above have failed. Mothers who use the shield should be instructed on how to wean the baby off the shield as soon as possible, and should weigh their baby frequently to assure adequate milk intake.

For many mothers, use of a shield is the first step in getting her baby to nurse at the breast, and may mean the difference between continuing to nurse or weaning. The mother’s ability to feel her baby sucking at her breast may encourage her to continue nursing after other attempts have failed. She needs to be encouraged to periodically put her baby on the breast without the shield until she is able to discontinue its use entirely. If the baby will take one breast without the shield, she should nurse him on that breast at each feeding, and use the shield only if the baby won’t take the other breast without it. While some babies move quickly from nursing with the shield to nursing without it (sometimes after only one or two feedings) other babies have to be weaned from it gradually. My niece, who had one normal nipple, and one that was severely inverted, used the shield on and off for several months. She monitored her baby’s weight gain carefully, and he is now happily nursing (without the shield) at the age of 18 months. Considering the severity of her inversion, I am not sure that her baby would have ever been able to nurse on that breast without the use of the shield.

***UPDATE!!! (Source International Breastfeeding Center)

MYTH: Women with flat or inverted nipples cannot breastfeed
.

ANSWER: Not true! Babies do not breastfeed on nipples, they breastfeed on the breast. Though it may be easier for a baby to latch on to a breast with a prominent nipple, it is not necessary for nipples to stick out. A proper start will usually prevent problems and mothers with any shaped nipples can breastfeed perfectly adequately. In the past, a nipple shield was frequently suggested to get the baby to take the breast.
THIS GADGET SHOULD NOT BE USED, ESPECIALLY IN THE FIRST TWO WEEKS!

Though it may seem a solution, its use can result in poor feeding and severe weight loss, and makes it even more difficult to get the baby to take the breast. (See Finger and Cup Feeding). If the baby does not take the breast at first, with proper help, he will often take the breast later. Breasts also change in the first few weeks, and as long as the mother maintains a good milk supply, the baby will usually latch on by 8 weeks of age no matter what, but get help and the baby may latch on before. See When a Baby Does not yet Latch.

e.       High Quality Pump.
If the soreness lasts for more than a week or two, you may need to use a high quality pump (See article Pumping and Storing Breastmilk) to help maintain your milk supply. When a nipple is severely inverted, the baby may compress the nipple buried inside the tissue, rather than the milk sinuses underneath the areola. The sucking action of the pump pulls out the center of the nipple uniformly, rather than compressing the areola. This can help gradually break the underlying adhesions.

If both nipples are severely inverted (which is not usually the case) you may need to double pump every 2-3 hours and feed your baby with an alternative method until the adhesions are broken and the nipples protrude. This is a situation in which renting a pump may really be worth it. In some extremely rare cases, the baby never successfully goes on the breast and you may need to continue pumping and feeding your expressed breastmilk by bottle. (See article Introducing Bottles and Pacifiers to the Breastfed Baby) for information on using bottles as well as alternative feeding methods.)

Usually, only one nipple is inverted and one breast is easier for the baby to grasp. In this case, you may want to feed on the ‘good side’ while you pump the other breast until the adhesions are loosened. You can feed the baby the milk you expressed on the inverted side after nursing on the other breast.

Some mothers can draw their inverted nipples out with just one pumping session. Others may need to continue pumping for days, weeks, or even months, depending on the degree of inversion and the baby’s sucking patterns. If the nipple inverts again during pauses in the baby’s feeding, you may need to stop and pump again for a few minutes and then put him back on the breast. In almost all cases, the adhesions will loosen and the baby will be able to nurse effectively as he grows bigger and stronger and becomes more efficient at nursing.

4.)     Other Resources:
a.       Breastfeeding Canada Inc
http://www.breastfeedinginc.ca/content.php?pagename=doc-WBD

b.      Dr Jack Newman on FB with a relevant posting:- https://www.facebook.com/DrJackNewman/posts/213653845452336

In almost all cases, the adhesions will loosen and the baby will be able to nurse effectively as he grows bigger and stronger and becomes more efficient at nursing, whether you invest in gadgets or not. Remember that the baby doesn’t ‘nipple feed’, instead the baby BREASTFEEDS. Once he is able to draw the nipple into his mouth, the shape of it doesn’t matter much at all.

Babies grow unbelievably fast, and his tiny mouth will ‘grow into a large/ flat/ or inverted nipple before you know it. Once the nipple inverts consistently, it seldom inverts again. Also, inverted nipples are much less common with second babies. Their older siblings seem to have paved the way, and pulled out the nipples for their baby brother or sister and making everyone in the family much happier!

**Need more info? Visit AlphaParent for All Breasts Can Breastfeed for more detailed discussion with regards breasts that were reduced, enhanced, etc. I find it all empowering!





Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Feature Alert: Sabine's First Birthday Party (featured at One Charming Day)

So honored for this...




A better view would be the below or you can use this link.

A Lilly Pulitzer Themed Birthday Party

Sabine’s 1st birthday bash is a party like no other!  It’s actually the first time I’ve seen or heard about a Lilly Pulitzer themed birthday party and if I’ll be honest, I had no idea who or what Lilly Pulitzer was until I saw this party (hihi!).  There are just so many fabulous details and I must say, Luxe Parties did a really awesome job in bringing the Lilly Pulitzer vibe and preppy taste to the party with all the vibrant pinks, greens and blues and chic colorful prints.  I specially loved the sweet treats corner where instead of the usual dessert table, you’ll find the treats beautifully displayed on mini tables, a cart and a chest with drawers.  Ornate frames, bird cages, colorful watering cans, bright pink and green flowers and the pink elephants and flamingos (very LP!) all added to the charm of the whole setup.
Sabine’s party is indeed too pretty for words! See it all here and prepare to swoon over these lovely photos captured by CasLow Photography.






































Venue: Wack Wack Golf and Country Club
Styling: Luxe Parties
Photography: CasLow Photography
Food Stalls/Entertainment/Craft Tables: Party Packagers
Cake: The Bunny Baker
Cupcakes and Cookies: French Kiss Pastries
Catering: The Plaza, Inc.


At Villamore Airbase...relief efforts (Nov 17, 2013 and beyond)

A very very late posting...but still an important post. Read on my friends...

I have been busy with a lot of things but among all that I've done and I think this will count as a life-changing and notable factor in my mind. It's so engrained even as I write this...it will be noted as sign that what I am doing is all in a Higher Being's will.

Oh my…I'm getting ahead of myself...I think the best thing is to do a timeline instead.

November 06, 2013
By November 6, the Philippine Atmospheric, Geophysical and Astronomical Services Administration (PAGASA) assigned the storm the local name Yolanda as it approached their area of responsibility.

[NOTE: Typhoon Haiyan, known as Typhoon Yolanda in the Philippines, was an exceptionally powerful tropical cyclone that devastated portions of Southeast Asia, particularly the Philippines, in early November 2013. It is the deadliest Philippine typhoon on record, killing at least 6,069 people in that country alone. Haiyan is also the strongest storm recorded at landfall, and unofficially the fourth strongest typhoon ever recorded in terms of wind speed.]

November 07, 2013
Typhoon Hailan (Yolanda) made landfall to Eastern Samar. Devastation started.

November 08, 2013
A weakened Haiyan, with its core disrupted by interaction with the Philippines, emerged over the South China Sea late on November 8 and left the Philippines.

November 11, 2013
The provinces of Aklan, Capiz, Cebu, Iloilo, Leyte, Palawan, and Samar, were placed under a state of national calamity, allowing the government to use state funds for relief and rehabilitation and to control prices of basic goods. Manila weather was still decently favorable with some showers but definitely not a typhoon compared to what our Visayas area was experiencing.

November 12, 2013
I left for Hong Kong for a short trip. Little did I know that I would be working offshore as part of the Breast Feeding Pinay’s relief efforts.

November 14, 2013
A correspondent from the BBC reported Tacloban to be a "war zone," with tanks and armed military personnel entering the city. To ensure the safety of the citizens of Tacloban, families are being flown from affected areas to Villamor Airbase (VAB).  The first batch of these came that evening and a lot were asking for milk formula.

Doc Lei Alfonso came up with a system on how to process the situation because we have to protect these babies and formula is never the solution and especially in calamities. She got in touch with Mrs. Ona, head of the generals’ wives, who wanted to know how to feed the infants. This is where help was provided.  Volunteers from Breastfeeding Pinays (BFP) and Latch Philippines were immediately immobilized upon the confirmation that VAB will be the hub of arrival of Tacloban survivors via C130 cargo places.  Both groups, BFP and LATCH, joined forces to set up an area for mothers and babies/toddler (0-2 years old) that can be a place of refuge.  The volunteer moms of both groups would help survivor moms and babies on breastfeeding, health checks, nutrition, etc. There will be a trained expert on hand; in case, there is a need for intervention like teaching how to cup feed, latch, etc.

November 15, 2013
While I was still in HKG, I was coordinating that afternoon for diaper deliveries via a diaper agent/contact of ours. From ordering sizes and number of pieces to maximize the contribution budget to finding transporting to ensure the fastest delivery date/time we could do. I was on edge all afternoon and I remember “biting my nails” in ensuring that we can get the whole thing set-up ASAP. I was thankful that things did worked out in the end like contacts were able to get the orders done, delivery arranged by another BFP friend, CW, with the proper schedule, long distance connections worked out well and all done before my next appointment in Hong Kong. It was exhausting but definitely felt the urgency of the moment and all the other mother volunteers were ready to step-up-the-plate to lend support, logistics and knowledge.

Aside from the diaper donation, I sent a heads-up to my whole family that I hope they would support me with regards to anything that would be needed later for relief efforts. Later requests were as random as tarpaulins, hot pots, rechargeable lamps, water dispensers, mosquito repellants, beddings, pillows…you name it, we welcomed it with open arms!



November 17-23, 2013
The Nanay Bayanihan was formed as a place of refuge for mothers and babies 0-2 years old with the assistance of LATCH, BFP, DOH, Villamore General Wives' Association, while waiting for the survivor's family members to pick them up, contact their relatives in Manila before pick-up or transit to another location. It provided food, shelter and relief goods to these families who have lost everything.
The below are some of the scenes between the 17th to the 23rd night shifts (10pm to about 3am to 4am) that I’ve done. I still can see some of the faces of those mothers and babies that just pinched my heart as I see how resilient they were and took everything in strides. Most of them were so shy that I had to be the ones to pull them over or I would go directly to the grandstands of Villamore Air Base.



We (BFP and Latch volunteers) instructed the habit that when the C130 planes landed, we would go directly to the grandstands, instead of having DSWD workers refer mothers/toddlers to us, directly ask them to come to the relief shelter/area. It was an effort but it was also a good thing because there were so many mothers who need to change their babies, get away from the crowds to rest, breastfeed in private, re-lactation, etc.




I have to say, I was in awe with the sheer volume of people but also of the huge cargo planes and the relief goods, people around the area.  Individual/Single, couple/families. Young and Old. Male and Female.  Poor / Middle Class, etc …disasters does not choose any type.

It was exciting most of the time but of course, there were nights where I was so tired from my day chores and ready to give up…but I would step back and think about what those arriving moms and babies went through was nothing to anything my day could have been...this helped motivate me to go up to the grandstands area for weary moms and babies that just needed a place of refuge for a few minutes, hours or days. I sought the help of the runners, DSWD marshals, announcers, etc to keep on telling everyone that there is a Nanay Bayanihan tent who offer mothers with babies 0-2 years old to rest and change their babies/toddlers.
Each group of people helping came and set-up their own tents like mushrooms! I wasn't able to take a photo of the 1st Nanay Bayanihan tent.



There were a few survivor moms who would reluctantly come and ask for formula, cloths, food and diapers.
Little is really advertised that UNICEF and World Health Organization (WHO) strongly urged all who are involved in funding, planning and implementing the emergency response in the Philippines to avoid unnecessary illness and death by promoting, protecting and supporting breastfeeding. Community leaders are called on to monitor and report any donations that may undermine breastfeeding.  This is targeted at infant formula distribution. Any formula milk or milk substitute donations are to be coursed through the Department of Health (DOH).  To add also, UN Disaster Risk Reduction (DRR) also noted that Non-breastfed infants are more likely to need hospital treatment and more likely to die from infectious disease post-flooding.


One of those running restless nights, I was able to bump into a ex-colleague also MikeyB that totally caught me off-guard since I know he had a really tough day job (banker) and still he was able to help out with so much gusto that I couldn’t give being tired as a Stay-At-Home-Mom as an excuse not to give the same energy to the weary survivors. It really woke me up and re-direction to my purpose there.


I was fortunate to experience a few wet nursing opportunities and re-lactating assistance since the moms have one or another are not available, either mom was asleep, had gave up on breastfeeding and resorted to giving the bottle (re-lactating was being done at our tent), and those who were left orphaned.  I was having flashbacks on the Dr Newman seminars and the book club that BFP (including my past experiences) as I help re-lactate and assist in feeding these mother’s babies. Though I am sure I would forget their names, the faces I surely won’t.



The transfer back from Aguinaldo to VAB had quite a few glitches and laced with controversies and stress but somehow, God had His Plan all lined up for all of us. Things worked out well in the end with the help of Sen. PC who assisted us while our tents were being transported for the next day.
 








When God plans...He plans BIG! From a mere 3 connecting tent, to a huge "mansion"! 
Nanay Bayanihan continues on...











 
I will surely miss the:
(1) nightly updates between shifts and what happened during the day, etc;
(2) home-cooked food offered to volunteers by chefs in “truck style” operations;

(3) the families (mom and babies) that I met who shared stories one way or another;
(4) the cute foreigner volunteers from all over;
(5) the repacking of customized lootbags/relief goods per recipients – it was shopping on a per baby/toddler that came in. We really got some awesome donors with great fashion and practical sense.  Generosity was so evident.


All in all, the whole experience:-
1.)    Strengthen my faith to God, fellowmen – all in the goodness of the group of people around me and my family. There was never anything that wasn’t provided at His own time.
2.)    Reaffirmed my conviction in Breastfeeding and Babywearing. It is all for the betterment of future society and the ones that will be with my children.
3.)    Reinforced my knowledge with passing on Breastfeeding, Relactating, Baby Care information to mothers that need it most.
4.)    Enabled me to experience being a wet nurse and compare bottle-fed versus direct feeding babies.

5.)    Gave me the opportunity to meet, mingle and forge friendships/connections with some awesome wonderful people (doctors, wet nurses, fellow mothers, etc) in Arugaan, BFP and Latch Philippines!

These are friends for life!